Post by Ashley on Dec 31, 2011 15:18:11 GMT -5
I am 21 in April and my ex and I broke up a month ago. We were together for 4 years our last two years for high school and some college.. I'm the one who did it. I just astarted feeling so confused idk. He is in school and has always taken care of me and given me everything I could ever ask for. I know with him he will always be there no matter what emotionally financially...we have been through so much. We even lost a baby (had to have an abortion to medical issues). Ever since then things have felt ugh...the only way I know how to put it. He has tried so hard to make me happy and when he asks what is wrong I say idk because I just simply dont. He has always been there when I needed him.
Two months ago I started talking to a different guy just as friends. We also went to hs together he was a grade younger. He attends a college two hours away so don't see him often however he is currently home on break. He has everything I want in a guy however he does not have a job. He goes to school full time and plays soccer do doesn't have time for a job. I know this and he has told me he feels horrible he can't support me but would if he could. I have a hard time paying for stuff just because I'm not used to that and due to no money we don't really go out unless I pay and his parents won't help at all. I know at 20 you aren't supposed to have money but it's do hard because to top it all off he has no car....but is a great guy..which goes back to my ex he is a great guy to and is still tryi g to make me happy even though we aren't together...I have no idea what to do...please help me
Two months ago I started talking to a different guy just as friends. We also went to hs together he was a grade younger. He attends a college two hours away so don't see him often however he is currently home on break. He has everything I want in a guy however he does not have a job. He goes to school full time and plays soccer do doesn't have time for a job. I know this and he has told me he feels horrible he can't support me but would if he could. I have a hard time paying for stuff just because I'm not used to that and due to no money we don't really go out unless I pay and his parents won't help at all. I know at 20 you aren't supposed to have money but it's do hard because to top it all off he has no car....but is a great guy..which goes back to my ex he is a great guy to and is still tryi g to make me happy even though we aren't together...I have no idea what to do...please help me